This cup shows up when your standards are high… and you keep negotiating them anyway.
You know what you want. You know what you won’t tolerate. And somehow you still end up “being understanding.” You spot the red flag… then start building excuses for it. But here’s what you don’t see: there’s one place you keep lowering the bar — and it’s teaching people to try you. If you smiled because it’s true, the full roast is waiting