You picked Orion because you’ve been over-functioning.
Fixing tone. Managing outcomes. Holding everything together—then wondering why you’re exhausted when nobody “asked” you to do anything.
Gentle roast:
they didn’t have to ask. You’ve been trained to volunteer.
The leak is unequal load.
You carry it until you snap, then blame yourself for being “too much.” Orion medicine is returning responsibility to its rightful owner.
The fix is small:
remove 10% of what you’ve been carrying. Reply slower. Stop reminding. Let them feel the consequence. Ask once, cleanly. Stop smoothing discomfort that isn’t yours to smooth.
Power doesn’t return through confrontation. It returns through withdrawal of over-delivery.